First of all, i really am not trying to prove any point here.. just to share what i have learned/gained in this blessing month of Ramadhan.. there were things that I wished to change at the beginning of Ramadhan and alhamdulillah I think I've seen the light. so, am writing this down, mostly to remind myself:
1) Be thankful - be thankful for whatever things you have now, your job, the air you breath, the bed you sleep on.. cos wealth won't come to you until you are thankful for the state you're in.
2) Learn to let go - you can't find happiness if you won't let go. Let go of the resentment. Hold nothing against people who have hurt you.
3) Forgive and forget - easier said than done...but believe me, if only you know -this is the most powerful feeling that would set you free.
4) Be happy for others - when you pray for other people's happiness, the malaikat will pray for you too.. so the way I look at it, whatever things you wish for people, will be wished back to you. So be nice in your prayers, only wish people well :)
5) Free yourself from insecurity - one thing for sure, you only have yourself to hurt with this bad trait of character. do the right thing, learn to love yourself and the love will come to you and trust in God that everything is taken care of. it frees your mind from insecurity (no one will ever escape His final court anyway) - i cant stress this enough as i learnt it the hard way.
6) Have faith in God - believe that He loves you.. so learn to redha for whatever things that happened in your life, be it good or bad... cos it is definitely for your betterment. (in my case, i am redha and believe He has a better plan for me)
1) Be thankful - be thankful for whatever things you have now, your job, the air you breath, the bed you sleep on.. cos wealth won't come to you until you are thankful for the state you're in.
2) Learn to let go - you can't find happiness if you won't let go. Let go of the resentment. Hold nothing against people who have hurt you.
3) Forgive and forget - easier said than done...but believe me, if only you know -this is the most powerful feeling that would set you free.
4) Be happy for others - when you pray for other people's happiness, the malaikat will pray for you too.. so the way I look at it, whatever things you wish for people, will be wished back to you. So be nice in your prayers, only wish people well :)
5) Free yourself from insecurity - one thing for sure, you only have yourself to hurt with this bad trait of character. do the right thing, learn to love yourself and the love will come to you and trust in God that everything is taken care of. it frees your mind from insecurity (no one will ever escape His final court anyway) - i cant stress this enough as i learnt it the hard way.
6) Have faith in God - believe that He loves you.. so learn to redha for whatever things that happened in your life, be it good or bad... cos it is definitely for your betterment. (in my case, i am redha and believe He has a better plan for me)
My breakup is definitely a turning point for me, especially in my characters. it's a blessing in disguise... my life has been a long and winding roads but i guess i won't change any of that cos it makes me who I am today.. afterall, how am i supposed to tell my kids and instill good values in them if i dun really understand those? at least i have a great love story (where I played a Romeo in it LOL) & a bunch of life experience to share with my kids and grandchildrens (alright dream on, i dun even have a bf yet LOL).
Well isn't life a wonderful experience? I cant wait to explore more.. far & beyond.. to travel around the world and be mesmerized by God's great creatures and who knows I'll find love in unexpected places... ah.. wonderful feeling even when am just imagining it :)
God, please please please make my dreams come true.. :)
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